Last Weekend

I get sort of melancholy thinking about our last weekend before school started.  I could tell you what we did, where we went, and who we saw...surface stuff...or I can tell you some deeper thoughts.  I can't get the word "friends" out of my mind.  What makes a friend and companion?  Is it history?  Is it vicinity? Is it common interest?  Is it all or none of those things?  

I'm a social person...I've always felt surrounded by friends in spirit even if not in person.  Lately I've been feeling a little alone...not really in a bad way...it's my job, the girls being gone, etc.  I'm finding out what it's like to really enjoy my own company and take part in today no matter who is actively involved in my "today."  

I spent most of my summer with Tony or in his Gallery visiting with strangers and listening to their adventures in the majestic place called Glacier.  I didn't have to take care of kids, I didn't have to work, I didn't have to clean...I just had to visit and "be."  It was regenerating.  

Here are some of my thoughts on what a friend is:

A friend will wade into the deepest waters with you with a smile on their face.

A friend will hold the tip of the boat down and push you through the waves as you bail water.
 A friend will allow you to shine and in that act...shine themselves.

 A friend can be old, brand new, younger, or older and never share the same talents or interests as long as you are both willing to play each other's games every once in awhile.  

 A friend will share the load...no matter how dirty it may be.

A friend let you know if you are wallowing in the bitter times if it means giving you strength and perspective to enjoy the sweetness life has to offer.

 A friend will let you stand in solitary if necessary...but will never leave you alone.

It was another fabulous weekend with Tony exploring Montana.  We were lucky to be joined by Jeff and his fun boys who are the same age as my girls.  They hit it off and were playing within 10 minutes of being introduced.  I can't tell you how proud and full my heart is right now...being a mom is good...being a friend is good...being able to experience these times is priceless.